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PROLOGUE
I
once met three philosophers arguing about the nature of God. The Christian
theologian among them insisted on the Trinitarian doctrine, the Oriental
Christian emphasised that the Holy Spirit proceeded only from the Father
whereas the Roman Christian argued that the Holy Spirit proceeded from both the
Father and the Son!
I laughed at them. They got angry. In unison, they demanded
to know why I was laughing them to scorn. I said, “Why not bother yourselves
about the things in the world that you can comprehend? Leave God alone!”
One of them interjected, “Why do you say that, are you wiser than the Holy
Church fathers and the great theologians that handed down these doctrines?”
“Thank you very much for being truthful. You just called
them ‘doctrines’ and that’s exactly what they
are! You can’t arrive at any meaningful conclusion in your argument
since all we can ever know or say about him is,
“God exists!” And what that really means is this: “God is the Almighty
Being that created everything that exists in the universe. Anything else
anybody says or we say is puerile, futile and simply mundane guesswork!” I concluded.
In I.S.M. we do not theorise about what we have no
existential answers that can satisfy human reasoning! We limit ourselves to
provable and rational concepts, no mysteries, no dogmas and no doctrines. You
are very welcome to disproving anything we posit, provided you can defend your
position convincingly, and carry along seventy-five per cent of humankind. We
are okay
CHAPTER 1:
AN OVERVIEW
i.
Oh!
Mortal man, why do you pride yourself with such titles as “ Homo sapiens”, “His
or Her Excellency”, “His Lordship or His Grace”, His Royal Highness” and
finally the “Lord of the Material Universe”, when you can never hear better
than a common bat, nor see better than the eagle?
ii.
What achievement has any man made that is not built on what has already
been provided by Nature? Just name one. Is it not enough to humble us down to
our knees in respect to whatever put us here on planet earth?
iii.
What is it that took care of our forefathers and ensured that they
survived to rear us the best they could? Who protected us in our mothers’ wombs
and those deadly infant diseases that killed some of our peers so that we
survived to flaunt our high resounding titles.
iv.
Now let us all bow our heads. Be silent for a while and listen to
Nature communicate wisdom in its simplest forms. When you hear the cock that
crows at night, starting from about 3.00am till it is 6.00 a.m. marking out the
hours while you sleep, what is it saying? -- It is thanking its Creator for
another day. And secondly, it is obeying Him by doing its duty twenty-four
hours a day marking out the hours of each day for all other animals and you,
man, the lord of the material universe as you choose to call yourself!
v.
It does it regularly and has been doing so before you, oh little
creature copied him to make your wristwatches in an attempt to supplant him,
but you have failed. The cock is more precise than the best chronometer you
ever invented or will soon manufacture! For one thing, it does not need a
battery to operate nor does it need servicing!
vi.
So man, learn to imitate the birds that wake each morning chirping
their morning prayers of thanks, while pleading to the Lord for their daily
bread.
vii.
What of trees that daily release
oxygen for your use? Have you ever gone to the gas station to purchase human
fuel, either air or water? How much air and water do you use each hour of your
life? Who provides and purifies them?
viii.
Did you thank the Creator of this universe for these two items only?
When will you do so? Do it now! Stop at this page, kneel down and reverence
whatever put you here on planet Earth
ix.
From today when the birds start their own morning hymns, oh you little
man, join them. That is why He feeds them on a daily basis, but you have to
struggle and suffer or steal to have food on an irregular basis besides our
human greed that makes it difficult for his fellow men to even have a little!
x.
Whatever or whoever created us all must have put some laws to govern whatever
breathes his air and drinks his water, for there are accidents and suffocation
when these elementary functions are performed inappropriately.
xi.
We must eat to live, drink to survive, sleep to rest and procreate to
save our species from extinction. Each of these functions we perform from
generation to generation, educated or not, civilised or not pious or crooked!
It wonderful isn’t it.
xii.
Order
and grace, beauty and serenity adorn His creations wherever you find them in
their natural habitats unperturbed by the most destructive animal; man! So let
us relent!
xiii.
The voice of wisdom speaks in all His creations but only the wise can
hear them! Can you interpret the language of honeybees or bring fellow men to
march in formation like the soldier ants without coercion and spending some
funds on training programmes, which the ants never do even at birth!
xiv.
These and similar precision occurrences like sunrise and sunset should
make us more pious and respectful but what do we find? Arrogance or buffoonery
intoxicates most of us.
xv.
The wisdom of the Creator shines forth everyday as the sunlight, but we
prefer to walk around like blind men vaunting our ignorance of His natural laws
that govern our very existence.
xvi.
So how do you assist a blind that does not see properly but claims that
he is okay and is not in need of your help, as he will never accept that he
does not know everything!
xvii.That is the problem with our
human race. Other animals are ready to learn from their parents and obey them
diligently, only man claims to know when he does not! When shall we ever learn
as other baby animals learn?
xviii.
The
time is now, not tomorrow, not next month, not next year but this very moment.
How does one do exactly that, you may ask?
xix.
Don’t
ask me, Kenez; rather ask King Solomon, the Wise! Go and read and memorise 1st
Kings, Chapter 3, verses 6-15. Or for an elaborate treatise, find the complete
bible edition and read chapter 9 verses 1- 18 of the WISDOM OF SOLOMON.
Always use the Good News Bible Edition for all
references!
USE ABOVE SPACE FOR YOUR PERSONAL NOTES
CHAPTER
2:
PRACTICAL
LESSONS FROM NATURE
i.
Open your eyes and look at
newborn babies. Study them for a whole week. Who taught them to cry? Why do
they cry? Watch them during breastfeeding. Who taught them to suck properly?
Did you, or did their mothers teach them? Answer me, Oh man!
ii.
Look at babies everywhere, you were once like
that, so learn to be humble and thank your father and mother if they are still
alive! You were a helpless animal that a cat or a dog could have eaten raw,
were it not for their paternal and maternal care!
iii.
There from, O arrogant creature learn the
virtue of gratitude, it does not hurt you nor will it cost you anything more
than to always say a loud “Thank You” all the rest of your short span of
existence on this planet
iv.
Carry a baby and note that it looks you
straight in the eyes and either smiles or begins to cry. If the latter, be sure
you are a bad person or you looked aggressive. Babies are the best judges of
character! So, learn to drop your worries and frowns when you approach others
in life.
v.
Everyone else you meet has
personal problems but they do not advertise them all the time, so why that
scowl on your face? Smile at difficulties and so learn forbearance, tolerance
and equanimity! There are virtues that you will need all the time!
vi.
Babies have weight as you must
have noticed, and this increases as they feed well and grow. What makes them
grow? How do they learn to sit, crawl, stand, and then walk? Answer me, oh Homo
sapiens! Lord of the material universe!
vii.
Why does an object fall to the
ground? Even when you throw objects far into the air, they return to the earth
on which you stand. You may simply answer that it is because of the force of
gravity, as you must have learnt by rote memory far back in elementary school.
viii.
But that answer was not so easy
for the first men and women on earth! Prehistoric men once worshiped that
magnetic phenomenon. So learn to investigate nature, discover new facts and
share your knowledge with others. It is a fundamental lesson of life!
ix.
The ground you stand on carries
your weight, no matter how large and heavy you think you are! All those
heavyweight wrestlers you watch on television all walk on the same ground.
Those heavy trucks that compete with trains in carrying loads are also resting
on the same ground! It carries all of us besides all the tall buildings man has
constructed everywhere in the world. Have you ever wondered what would happen
if the earth for once refused to carry our weight?
x.
We bury dead men and animals in
the ground to avoid their stench and the epidemics they could cause! Yet has it
at any time rejected to accept more corpses? Why? Answer me, the self-styled “Man, the summit of
creation”
xi.
It is no use answering titles one
cannot defend, nor lumber around under the euphoria of crammed information
gathered from books and school curricula. Put on your thinking cap and attempt
an answer.
xii.
The wisdom of the Almighty
Creator fashioned all those macrocosms and microcosms and assigned them eternal
duties which they religiously obey at all times, come rain, come sunshine! So
have you found out yours? If not, when will you begin? Start now. It is yet
early morning on creation day for you! Make an honest inquiry. Imitate them.
Therefore in life don’t expect a “thank you” for doing your duties!
xiii.
Those macrocosms that serve your
purposes; the sun, the moon, water, air and the ground never demanded any from
you! They all co-operate to grow the crops from which we prepare the meals at
our dinner tables daily! Or are you the one who produces the grains, tubers,
roots and fruits that wild animals, birds and humans consume?
xiv.
I have not forgotten that the
breast milk is by far better than any infant formula that any scientist can
ever produce! The same goes for the natural and clean water collected during a
heavy rainfall. Its purer, as it contains all the minerals the animal body
needs, both wild and domesticated, including man himself!
xv.
When last did you eat an egg laid
by a non-poultry-raised hen, for example a guinea fowl? Or to make it simpler,
taste a sample of wild eggs and that of poultry eggs, and you will be amazed
that despite all the veterinary care and husbandry of agricultural farmers, the
wild eggs taste not only better but also contain more concentrates of the nutrients
that build the body! Ask any qualified scientist in that field!
xvi.
Who ensures all these? Can any
created being human or non-humans perform these feats? If your answer is positive please tell us
where you got your materials! If
negative, then bow down and worship Nature or whoever produces them for our
enjoyment!
xvii.
The focus is still on babyhood.
You have many more lessons to learn from infants! Do you remember who carried
you about when you were small? Ask your parents. Find him or her and please
give a big hug or a large gift in appreciation!
xviii.
Your weight alone must have
deformed the natural structure of your babysitter's figure. The spinal column,
the backbones or the waist of such a one must have altered its structure, no
matter how infinitesimal! Ask physiotherapists. You caused that; and therefore
you owe an apology or a “thank you”! Which do you prefer?
xix.
All go to show the
interdependence of created beings. House helps; stewards, cooks, maids and
servants must be valued and appreciated! We need each other to grow, mature and
enjoy life to the fullest. The name of the game of life is; “you rub my backside and I rub yours!”
xx.
The innocence of nudity is the
most important lesson the baby teaches. Why do we need clothes if not to cover
our guilt and the embarrassment that it enunciates? Try to regain your
innocence if you can, however note that shame or societal disdain is what we
deserve as the just punishment for disobeying any natural laws!
CHAPTER 3:
SOME INTERNATIONAL LANGUAGES
i.
Did you know that you were once a
linguist? Yes, you were once an international orator and everyone listened and
reacted to your famous speeches! You must have lost that talent or suppressed
it. But you can reclaim it if you really want to be an international sage!!
Read on, if you do!
ii.
Visit
the home of a couple that has a newborn and quietly observe everyone in the
house for an hour when the baby is wide-awake. Relax. Just watch mummy, daddy,
children and others in the house! This is a very important practical. Don’t
miss it. Do this before reading any
further, please!
iii.
What
did you see in the home you visited? Who was dishing out orders to everyone
else? Who was the parade commander? Who was obeyed and must be obeyed? And
finally what did you learn about children and their ability to order everyone
around them. Do they get immediate obedience or compliance? ----Yes, they
always do!
iv.
You
were once an autocratic baby like the one you observed! You gave commands and
everyone came running to obey you. At times you even caused a quarrel between
daddy and mummy when there was a delay in compliance to your demands!
v.
Am
I making any useful remarks? Of course, I am! The world of the infant is full
of “give me, carry me, feed me, change my
wet pants, cant you see I am hot? - do something about it, cant you feel the
cold?- common, cover me with a blanket,.. etc”
vi.
Some
of that language still remains in everyone’s subconscious mind and we
occasionally demand immediate gratification. If you do so, it shows that you
are still a baby when you are among adults. So stop it now! Selfishness or
egocentricity is childish behaviour! Drop any vestiges of it remaining with you
today!
vii.
But
that is not all. Did you also assimilate the love showered on the infant by all
around, including yourself? Atimes, while you were there, you felt like
scolding the mum for delaying the prompt breastfeeding of the baby. Did you?
viii.
That
is called “empathy”. You felt for the helpless infant and wanted to assist in
the little way you could. You were right then, but do you do so nowadays
helping or assisting others in this selfish country and world that we live in?
Sympathy is an international language!
ix.
Did
you notice that even daddy was ready to fight for the baby? He was ready to
abandon the love he has for the wife just to please the infant. Why? I need an
answer from you, the proud Homo sapiens!
x.
It
is called international justice! The weak are always to be defended or
protected before the strong. It is a natural code written in our minds but we
sooner than later stifle it, replacing it with cultural stereotypes and ethnic
prejudices. Re-learn it today!!
xi.
My
dear, I am not giving you any new codes of conduct. No! These have always been
there! I am only unearthing them for mankind to become conscious of the
international language that everyone once spoke and understood.
xii.
Crying
is an international language that translates thus: I am in difficulty… I need your assistance to get out of this sad
situation, please help me… will someone listen to me? Did you get
my message? How many people have you rescued in the past week?
xiii.
However
note that sometimes teardrops could indicate extreme pleasure, unexpected joy
or negative emotional upset! But you always tell the difference by assessing
the cues in the immediate environment of the one concerned!
xiv.
Smiling
is an international language, and converts to laughter when doubled or
multiplied in geometric proportions! Both translate into;“ I am pleased at the moment,.. thank you for the pleasant stimulus,..
it is hilarious here, why don’t you join us and laugh! Am I making any
sense to you? Do not say yes when you really mean no.
xv.
Frowning
is an international language, which when serious becomes a scowl, threat or
hatred and a prelude to mischief. In all your life avoid it. It does you no
good. Ask Cain, the brother of Abel in the Christian Bible! He is a professor
in that subject. He graduated in it and became the first murderer in the
history of mankind, as we are told!
xvi.
Music
is an international language! And when dramatised turns into various types of
dancing! Good ones cut across ethnic, religious and national boundaries. All
domesticated and wild animals, especially snakes listen to and enjoy good
music. Ask any zookeeper! Even criminals enjoy their own kind of music.
xvii. Romance is an international language!
Falling in love cuts across all human demarcations. It has even resulted in
peace accords, unions and festivals as well as murders, wars and enmity!
xviii. There are many other international
languages! Learn to cultivate the good ones and minimise the use of any bad
language like scolding, shouting, gossiping, backbiting, slandering and finally
maligning others!
xix.
Two
other international languages are; urinating and defecating! As an infant we
all did it wherever and whenever pressed, but we were also trained to postpone
or delay them till we get to the appropriate places for doing so. Have you been
doing these rightly?
xx.
Finally,
this is definitely the one that runs haywire for immature people! Libido or
sexual energy, its profitable use or misuse!! Promiscuity is bad in concept and
unhealthy / futile in execution; anywhere, any day, anytime. Control your
passions! The ability to do so separates mature rational human beings from all
infantile, hedonistic and regressed ones! Which are you? Adieu!
SPACE FOR PERSONAL NOTES
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CHAPTER 4:
LECTURES FROM A TODDLER
i.
Have
you ever heard of Sigmund Freud, Jean Piaget, Erik Erickson or Lawrence
Kohlberghas? These are well known research scientists that spent years,
studying children in minute detail. So you need to get into a library or
consult a current encyclopaedia to appreciate the wisdom contained in this
chapter!
ii.
We
may take off with the toddler. Do you remember some of the things you did at
that age? I can only summarise some of them here; you sucked your thumb so much that you had to be punished to stop
that 'naughty' habit. Again as you dropped that one, you began to babble
monosyllabic words and very much later you were able to pronounce your first
meaning words, which were; mama, dada, ada, aha aba, then -mummy, daddy, etc
followed gradually!
iii.
But
the greatest achievement was what Jean Piaget called; the acquisition of
pre-operational concepts of mass, volume, height, and depth. But let's take
thumb sucking first, which the father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud
elaborated on in great detail. It contains so much on personality formation! It
is normal for children to suck, for they even started it right there in the
womb long before they were delivered!
iv.
Thumb
sucking relieves an infant’s tension and stimulates the sensitive membranes of
the mouth pleasantly. In this respect the thumb is to the infant what the
cigarette is to the adult. When children are tired, sleepy, hungry, sick, or
are teething, their finger sucking increases.
v.
Scolding
a child for thumb sucking will make him feel guilty, which he will try to
relieve by more thumb sucking. This is counter-productive! It is more effective to keep him well fed and
to provide him with adequate toys to occupy his hands and fingers.
vi.
So
newly weds should take note. You could be damaging your infant’s future
personality by your ignorant enforcement of age-old discipline that was only
done in error and is really a cultural proscription!
vii.
For
cigarette smokers, you now know that you are regressing to a toddler's method
of reducing tension or anxiety, thereby informing all around you that you still
immature. This is equally applicable to ladies who always delight in chewing
gums! A word is enough for the wise!
viii. However the most important lesson to
learn from the infant at this time is to face your tensions as a mature adult
and seek for help if need be! Don’t resort to infantile behaviour!! Excessive
drinking is akin to this problem. Alcohol never solved any problems, rather it
adds to it!
ix.
The
next lesson is what Freud called “fixations”. “Fixation at the oral stage
leads to extreme selfishness” states Sigmund Freud. This naturally leads
the child onto seeking pleasurable things in later life, thereby developing as
an egocentric personality! Sensuality, avarice and gluttony follow in the wake
of retaining this misdemeanour!
x.
The
next fixation is that of the anal stage, when the child derives pleasure from
controlling the anus. Due to routine you may not have noticed that defecation
is pleasurable! It relieves tension. But in infancy the toddler notices that
he/she can control the parents by inappropriate release or withholding of bowel
movements!
xi.
In
later life, those that resort to this regression of infantile manoeuvre develop
stingy personality traits. They tend to hoard in order to control the relevant
others' behaviour! Traders take note! When this trait combines with the
previous one; greed, stealing and robbery are the triplets that are
delivered!
xii.
Stingy parents, please realise that your
marriage partner is unduly being stressed by you regressed fixation! Some
sexual relationships suffer because of this subconscious manipulation learnt in
early life!! I have treated many cases of this type in my clinical practice.
xiii. Bosses in offices, Principals of
schools, Pastors in parishes, Bursars or Purchasing Officers in various
organisations should take a good note of this and re-evaluate their behaviour
henceforth!
xiv.
The
next lecture from that toddler is the fixation at the phallic stage! Most
infants derive pleasure from caressing their sex organs early in life. Some
parents notice this and reclaim their kids before much damage is done. Others
ignore this or do not even take notice!
xv.
In
reality everyone indulged temporarily in masturbation early in life to relieve
tensions. However some carry it to teenage, adolescence, and even to adulthood!
This results in promiscuity! It is as simple as that! Retrain yourself if you
are involved or consult a sex therapist!
xvi.
By
now you may think that all these are psychological jargons, but I assure you
that they are not! Sigmund Freud spent all his life after medical college
studying these and he is an authority in this area!
xvii. That one did not take notice of what
one did, as a child does not translate to that they never occurred! Observe
your own kids from now on and you will be grateful to that great psychoanalyst!
xviii.
The
hurdles that every toddler has to cross to develop into a well-balanced personality
have been highlighted for you to begin a sanitation exercise within yourself!
Consult a clinical psychologist for remedies!
xix.
The
integrated personality that we all desire consists in passing those stage in
life appropriately assisted by our cultural norm and mores. Parental awareness
of these stages is hereby canvassed for. Religion often comes to the rescue,
but with varying degrees of success. Some develop scruples or other
depersonalisation syndromes!
xx.
A
normal heterosexual relationship is hard to attain but it is achievable! Don’t
give up! Make the best use of the knowledge your garnered from this chapter to
raise your lovely children and leave the rest for the Almighty Creator of both
you and you kids!
CHAPTER
5:
WINDOWS
OF THE SOUL
i.
Before you misinterpret this
subheading, note that it is only a continuation of “ Lectures from a toddler”
but from a different perspective. As I was typing this on my computer it
occurred to me that we humans perform similar tasks as the hard disc, floppy
diskette or CD-ROM.
ii.
All computers need windows to
function, and so does the human central nervous system. I quickly remembered
also that in the science of ergonomics machines are made to fit human
operators. Then the really big one is that electronic engineers studied the
human brain, how it functions in everyday life, and copied it to invent the
computer itself!
iii.
The eyes, ears, nose, mouth and
the skin of the infant allow it to communicate with the external environment
just as the keyboard, the mouse, and modems permit the computer to appreciate
the “garbage in, garbage out “ paradigm!
iv.
So it is with the human soul! It
has many windows with which it interacts with, controls and responds to both
the internal and the external environments of the human body!
v.
We feel hot, cold, warm, and have
tactile responses because nature’s gift of feeling is a window of the soul! So
also are the other windows you may observe in the body of our little lecturer,
“the toddler”.
vi.
A brand new hard disc, “the C
drive”, is blank until programs are fed into it! And so is the new-born /
babe's mind, its early responses and later in life its traits, mannerisms, and
ultimately its good and bad behaviours!
vii.
Has it ever occurred to you that
differences in children are due to a variety of programmers working on its
“CPU”, by the very same ways different soft wares fed into a computer
determines the behaviours and services it can render?
viii.
So, we intend to reflect on how
we influence the making of saints or criminals in our family interactions with
toddlers in this chapter! In reality, we are the products of parental
influences, cultural, ethnic and religious stereotypes and social prejudices!
This is the hard truth!
ix.
If you rear a set of identical
male twins, one in a prison yard and the other in a monastery. What would you
expect at the end of twenty-five years? Or, on the other hand, you rear a set
of female identical twins, one in a convent and the other in a brothel, what
will the results of your experiment behaviour-wise?
x.
That is exactly what happens to
us all within our short life span of home upbringing by responsible or
irresponsible adults around us! Make no mistakes about it; stealing,
aggressiveness, telling lies, cleanliness, carefulness, loyalty promiscuity etc
are all programmed behaviours!
xi.
So we must be wary and conscious
of what we do or fail to do in the presence of toddlers, teenagers and
adolescents! They constitute the best imitators and artistes in the world. The
irony of it being that they take it for real and the beat way to survive in he
socio-cultural milieu they grew up! And they carry it about to other areas of
the world unable to differentiate “the good, the bad and the ugly”.
xii.
When I bought my first computer,
I had “Microsoft Windows 95” as its pre-installation program from Compaq, the factory that made it.
Later on I learnt that two more windows were already in existence since then,
but there was little I could do about a change. I made the best use of that
primary learning program, even though most of my more informed friends pressurised
me to re-program it.
xiii.
Sooner than later, fluctuations
in electric current in my neighbourhood took its toll on my hard disc, and all
I got after my computer had booted out was; “operating system, not found”. Truly, that was exactly “experimental neurosis” for my poor CPU, and it
won my sympathy. I took the whole compartment that houses the hard disc to
Lagos, parted with a large chunk of my income and had “Microsoft Windows 98” installed!
xiv.
Before that decision, however, I
had made inquiries on the best program that was in the market, for by then two
more windows had been introduced into the computer world! And so it is with every
toddler's mind! It is programmed. But unlike the computer, it cannot be reprogrammed easily. There are
always traces of the original programs, software, on line, Internet (surfed or browsed) and downloaded programs!
xv.
You can begin to appreciate more
why parents and other relevant adults around every new-born must be wise and
selective about what the baby sees, hears, tastes, feels or touches within the
first five years of life! Do I need to explain an idiom? No! It is never done
in my culture. You just have to grow up to unravel the nuggets of wisdom
wrapped in an idiom! Do so now!
xvi.
The ‘icons, shortcuts, mouse’ and
other methods of recognising and inserting good and bad behaviour patterns in
the infant, graduates into more sophistication as it learns to walk, talk,
read, listen to radio/ tape recorders and watch television programs!
xvii.
Therefore, bringing up a balanced
and well-groomed teenager is not a simple task. Unfortunately that is exactly
what obtains in most homes! Parents think that all they need do is; feed the
baby well, take it hospital, Nursery school or Sunday service. They are as
wrong as they can ever be in life!
xviii.
And such parents are the first to
exclaim, “ What’s wrong with junior? Why is this child behaving abnormally?
During my teenage years, I never did things like these? What is wrong with
children of nowadays? I cannot exhaust the list of embarrassing statements I
have heard!
xix.
For an answer, I have only this
“They had immature parents who ignored them early in life, but were busy
chasing money, and those parents are delinquents!” We over-emphasise what is trivial, magnify or
over-prioritise that which does not build good human relationships but in the
same vein neglect our children’s proper upbringing.
xx.
Please rethink after reading this
chapter. The greatest investment you can ever make in life is training your
child properly, not a fat bank account or landed properties scattered all over
the world! Many homes have no children but you are toying with the fruits of
love Nature has bountifully gracefully given to you!
CHAPTER
6
OF
BECOMING A GREAT SOUL
i.
Everything
that lives and possesses immanent motion has a soul! Do you want a debate on
that? Simple, tell me any invention of man that is self- propelled? The nearest
we have come to that, is the novel solar system whereby some prototypes of
electrical machines are energised by the power of the sun. This would definitely
benefit those living in the tropics and that explains why European scientists
are dragging their feet over their mass production!
ii.
But
what are our so-called professors in engineering waiting for? When shall all
those warming academic stools in our glorified universities in the tropics
compete with their counterparts? In order not to derail, lets focus on how one
can aspire to and eventually become a great soul worthy of mention after one's
lifespan on earth!
iii.
What
or who is a great soul? To answer that question let us consider some great
statements that have changed the course of man's history and identify those who
made them; - “The moment the slave resolves that he will no longer be a slave, his
fetters fall. He frees himself and shows the way to others. Freedom and
slavery are mental states.” Guess who made that everlasting statement!
iv.
“
If we are to achieve a richer culture, rich in contrasting values, we must
recognise the whole gamut of human potentialities, and so weave a less
arbitrary social fabric, one in which each diverse human gift will find a
fitting place.” I hope you will get this very easily,
can you?
v.
“ I
submit that an individual who breaks an unjust law that his conscience tells
him is unjust, and who willingly accepts the penalty of imprisonment in order
to arouse the conscience of the community over its injustice, is in reality
expressing the highest respect for law.”
vi.
Have
you attempted to find the Great Souls that made those watersheds of eternal
truths? If not, you need the services of a historian of repute to unravel their
identities! Let me give you some more clues.
vii.
Add
this to the first quotation; --– A
diminutive man possessed of an indomitable will, who not only secured national
independence for his native land, but also introduced to world politics a
concept of active, nonviolent civil disobedience an idea whose myriad
applications have only begun to be explored. Have you remembered him by
now?
viii. Add this to the second quotation; --As an anthropologist, she advocated
progressive social action, as is evident in one of her most famous quotes: “
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the
world; indeed it’s the only thing that ever has.”
ix.
Add
this to the third quotation; -- When
he was in jail, he wrote, “ I am in Birmingham because injustice is here”, and
then added this to his fellow clergymen… “Injustice anywhere is a threat to
justice everywhere.”
x.
If
by now you have not guessed anyone of the three Great Souls correctly, then
stop reading this Kenezian Ethics, for it will do you no good! You need to
refine your thoughts, enlarge your heart, begin to learn new ideas about
humanitarian principles and a little more from history books!
xi.
Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, also known as Mahatma (Great Soul) wrote the first one in 1949, in his book:
NON-VIOLENCE IN PEACE AND WAR. He is today regarded as the greatest
revolutionary of the century. He has many disciples, to date, including this
author!
xii.
Margaret Mead, while popularising anthropology
through her field studies on the cultures of New Guinea and Samoa, wrote the
second quotation in 1935, in her classic: “SEX AND TEMPERAMENT IN THREE
PRIMITIVE SOCIETIES.” She argued that culture and society, not biological
inheritance, determine individual character. The idea disarmed theorists who
asserted that personality and intelligence, like the color of skin, stemmed
from biology, and it discredited arguments that supported race-based policies
of segregation.
xiii. Martin
Luther King, Jnr.
wrote the third quotation in a book compiled from the letters he wrote on
scraps of paper and smuggled out from prison cell in 1963, entitled: “ LETTER FROM BIRMINGHAM JAIL.” The letters
were mainly addressed to his critics in the clergy who opposed his civil rights
marches.
xiv.
King
credited Indian leader Mohandas Gandhi for the non-violent methods of civil
disobedience he used against unjust laws. In subsequent years before his
assassination in 1968, King – against much resistance – led the drive toward
civil rights legislation while promoting peaceful civil disobedience as a
universal method of demanding social and economic justice.
xv.
Have
you learnt any veritable lessons from those quotes of Great Souls? I
deliberately chose from three different cultures and from both sexes, to assert
that great minds exist in most men and women of great repute! You too, can
become a beacon of light in this present life and a source of inspiration after
death!
xvi.
A
single voice can change the world! Whether the voice describes a new scientific
theory, tells the stories of a culture, or speaks for a previously voiceless
group of people! It can reach across national borders and across time to
influence a wider world and transform the world that follows.
xvii. That voice could be yours. Start today
to have universal thoughts that will benefit the whole humanity. Yes, that’s
the way all Great Souls began! Influential thinkers perform such feats! You
too, can become a Great Soul!!
xviii.
The
twentieth century is nearing an end. Powerful ideas in physical and medical
sciences, arts and humanities, politics and religion have changed our social
relationships for better or for worse! Don’t sit on the fence. Choose a role
model today and begin to emulate him or her!
xix.
Some
great minds have altered humanity, increased understanding between individuals
and cultures, and helped to define our present world for good or for bad.
Nothing ever remains the same always. Change is a natural law that we all must
obey at all times!
xx.
Do
you want to make history? Today is your genesis! Seize the opportunity of this
moment. Let this meditation on becoming a Great Soul be the impetus that you
have been waiting for! Don’t procrastinate! It is a lazy man’s excuse!
DO SOMETHING POSITIVE FROM NOW ONWARDS
Email me at saintkenez@yahoo.co.uk OR agunabu1948@gmail.com
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CHAPTER
7
EIGHT
AGES OF MAN
i
Now we shall consult another expert on the development of the toddler.
How does the infant acquire some personality traits? In other words, how did
you become the individual you are today with all your peculiar mannerisms? What
roles did your parents and relevant others play in the shaping your present
personality traits?
ii Erik Homburger Erikson,
while practising at the Centre for the Advanced Study in the Behavioural
Sciences, Stanford, California in March 1963 wrote: “CHILDHOOD AND SOCIETY”, a Pelican Book, that
was the result of more than ten years of clinical observations of two American
Indian tribes.
iii On the front cover he summarised his work
thus: “ While tribes and nations, in many
intuitive ways, use child training to the end of gaining their particular form
of mature human identity, their unique version of integrity, they are and
remain, beset by the irrational fears which stem from the very state of
childhood which they exploited in their specific ways.”
iv Professor Erikson is a
Freudian. Using a number of fascinating case histories as springboards for
theoretical discussions of the formative years of childhood, he reveals human
life as a delicate balance between bodily, mental, and social influences in the
masterpiece!
v.
You
just have to locate that handy book and read it in a hurry, in order to follow
my conclusions here! The title of our chapter is lifted from his book and
coincidentally it is also a chapter seven! I can only summarise them here, and
my précis may not convey all the information you need. So, find it and read
it!
vi.
The
first age of man, Erikson labelled as; “Basic Trust versus Basic Mistrust” which
refers to the relaxation the infant feels with parental provision of his basic
survival needs. “The first demonstration
of social trust in the baby is the ease of his feeding, the depth of his sleep,
the relaxation of his bowels. The experience of a mutual regulation of his
increasingly receptive capacities, with the maternal techniques of provision
gradually helps him to balance the discomfort caused by the immaturity of
homeostasis with which he was born”.
vii.
In
practice, the infant’s first social achievement, then, is his willingness to
let the mother out of sight without undue anxiety or rage, because she has
become an inner certainty as well as an outer predictability. Maternal bonds
formed by long and regular breastfeeding ensures this! Such consistency,
continuity, and sameness of experience provide a rudimentary sense of ego identity. The lesson to learn from
that analysis is that parents should take the blame if their children do not
trust anyone in later life! Build confidence in your little infants today!!
viii. The next age is labelled: “Autonomy
versus Shame & Doubt” which has to do with locomotion. Maturation
of the limbs and the ability to move around brings in its wake anxiety!
Muscular maturation sets the stage for experimentation with two simultaneous
sets of social modalities; their basic conflicts can lead in the end to either
hostile or benign expectations and attitudes. These are very important facts
which parents neglect either due to ignorance or dereliction of duties towards
new-borns that are priceless gifts from Mother Nature!
ix.
“Thus, to hold can become as destructive and
cruel as retaining or restraining, and it can become a pattern of care: to have
and to hold! To let go, too, can turn into an inimical letting loose of destructive
forces, or it can become a relaxed “to let pass” and “to let be”. In other
words, we need to realise that self-confidence and independence depends on how
much autonomy we allow our children in early life. Allow them to be on their
own. Don’t over-protect nor pamper your children. When they fall down, allow
them to get up by themselves!
x.
The
age of “Initiative versus Guilt” follows, which Erikson
describes as the most important factor in morality development! There is in
every child at every stage a new miracle of vigorous unfolding, which
constitutes a New Hope and a New Responsibility for all. Such is the sense and
the pervading quality of initiative.
xi.
The
criteria for all these senses and qualities are the same: a crisis, more or
less beset with fumbling and fear, is resolved, in that the child suddenly
seems to “grow together” both in his person and in his body. He appears “more
himself”, more loving, relaxed and brighter in his judgement, more activated
and activating.
xii.
He
is in free possession of a surplus of energy, which permits him to forget
failures quickly and to approach what seems desirable (even if it also seems
uncertain and even dangerous) with undiminished and more accurate direction.
Initiative adds to autonomy the quality of undertaking, planning and
“attacking” a task for the sake of being active and on the move, where before
self-will, more often than not, inspires acts of defiance or, at any rate,
protested independence!
xiii. The point for all adults around growing
children to note, is that we must permit freedom to infants to makes mistakes,
bear the consequences for their indiscretions and thereby learn to obey norms
and mores on their own initiative rather than to please anyone! Does this make
any sense to you? Moral codes must be rationalised and internalised on their
own, not by religious or parental coercion!
xiv.
The next age is that of “Industry versus
Inferiority”, wherein Erikson next introduces the genesis of laxity,
truancy and malingering. The last stage is the foundation of initiative, thus
the inner stage seems all set for “entrance into life”, except that life must
first be school life, whether school is in a field or a jungle or a classroom!
The child must forget past hopes and wishes while his exuberant imagination is
tamed and harnessed to the laws of impersonal things – even the three Rs!
xv.
With
the oncoming latency period, the normally advanced child forgets, or rather
sublimates, the necessity to “make” people by direct attack or to become a papa
or a mama in a hurry! S/he now learns to win recognition by producing things,
becomes ready to apply her/himself to given skills and tasks, which go far
beyond the mere playful expression of her/his sexual organ's modes of pleasure
in the function of his limbs.
xvi.
The
growing child or teenager now develops a sense of industry – i.e., s/he adjusts
her/himself to the inorganic laws of the tool world. S/he can become an eager
and absorbed unit of a productive situation, and to bring it to completion is
an aim/objective, which gradually supersedes the whims and wishes of play! A
successful adjustment results in a well-balanced adult! So, guide your kids to
achieve independence and industry in later life and you would have scored a
100% as good and dutiful parent!!!
xvii. The fifth age, Erikson called “Identity
versus Role Confusion” which simply states what is happening as the
teenager evolves into an adolescent. With the establishment of a good initial
relationship to the world of skills and tools, and with the advent of puberty,
childhood proper comes to an end. Youth begins!
xviii.
With
the maturation of their gonads; menarche in females and wet dreams in males,
they are now primarily concerned with what they appear to be in the eyes of
others as compared with what they feel they are, and also with the question of
how to connect the roles and skills cultivated earlier with the occupational
prototypes of the day!
xix.
The
integration now taking place in the form of ego identity is, as pointed out
earlier, more than the sum of the childhood identifications. It is the accrued
experience of the ego's ability to integrate all identifications with the
vicissitudes of the libido, with the aptitudes developed out of endowment and
with the opportunities offered in social roles!
xx.
The
danger of this stage is role confusion!
Where this is based on a strong previous doubt as to one's sexual identity,
delinquency and/or outright psychotic episodes are not uncommon! But when
properly resolved and to keep themselves together, they temporarily over
identify, to the point of apparent complete loss of identity, with heroes of
cliques and crowds!
xxi.
This
initiates the stage of “falling in love”, which is by no means entirely, or
even primarily, a sexual matter – except where the mores demand it. To a considerable extent, adolescent love is an
attempt to arrive at a definition of one's identity by projecting one's
diffused ego-image on another and by seeing it thus reflected and gradually
clarified. This is why; so much of young love is conversation and an over-doze
of chattering spiced with giggles!
xxii.
“Intimacy
versus Isolation” is the next
age of man, according to Professor Erik Erikson! The young adult, emerging from
the search for and the insistence on identity, is eager and willing to fuse his
identity with that of others. S/he is ready for intimacy, that is, the capacity
to commit her/himself to concrete affiliations and partnerships and to develop
the ethical strength to abide by such commitments, even though they may call
for significant sacrifices and compromises.
xxiii. The physical body and the ego must
now become masters of the organ modes (instinctual energies)
and of the nuclear conflicts (sexual
urges), in order to be able to face the fear of ego loss (inferiority
complex) in situations which call for self-abandon (self denial): in the
solidarity of close affiliations, in orgasms and sexual unions, in close
friendship and in physical combat, in experiences of inspiration by teachers
and of intuition from the recesses of the self!
xxiv. The avoidance of such experiences because of
fear of ego-loss may lead to a deep sense of isolation and consequent
self-absorption. These are the predisposing factors that lead to masturbation,
homosexuality and lesbianism! Be observant and rescue your little ones from
these abnormalities early in life! Display genuine heterosexual relationships
whenever you and your spouse are in front of them!
xxv.The seventh age of man then, is “Generativity
versus Stagnation”, a term that encompasses the evolutionary
development that has made man the teaching and instituting, as well as the
learning animal. Generativity, then, is primarily the concern in establishing
and guiding the next generation of human beings, although there are individuals
who, through misfortune or because of special and genuine gifts in other
directions, do not apply this drive to their own offspring.
xxvi. Generativity thus is an essential on
the psychosexual as well as on the psychosocial schedule. Where such enrichment
fails altogether, regression to an obsessive need for pseudo-intimacy takes
place, often with a pervading sense of stagnation and personal impoverishment.
This is the predisposing factor for the variety of abnormal sexual behaviour
mentioned earlier! In fact, some young parents suffer from the retardation of
the ability to develop this stage!
xxvii. And finally, we arrive at the last age
of man; “Ego integrity versus Despair”, which the learned
professor describes thus; “Only in him
who in some way has taken care of things and people and has adapted her/himself
to the triumphs and disappointments adherent to being, the originator of others
or the generator of products and ideas – only in him/her may gradually ripen
the fruits of these seven stages”.
xxviii.
“It is the ego's accrued assurance of its
proclivity for order and meaning. It is a post-narcissistic love of the human
ego – not of the self – as an experience which conveys some world order and
spiritual sense, no matter how dearly paid for! It is the acceptance of one's
one and only life cycle as something that had to be and that, by necessity,
permitted of no substitutions: it thus means a new, a different love of one's
parents” affirms Erikson!
xxix.
“The lack or loss of this accrued ego
integration is signified by fear of death: the one and only life cycle is not
accepted as the ultimate of life. Despair expresses the feeling that the time
is now short, too short for the attempt to start another life and to try out
alternative roads to integrity! Disgust hides despair, if often only in form of
a thousand little disgusts which do not add up to one big remorse”, concludes our learned professor!”
xxx.
My
dear reader, with the wisdom gained here, you can now assert that it is not
religion that makes one feel guilty, develop into a sex pervert and/or become a
recluse! Modern man has to learn to de-emphasise scruples induced by religious
injunctions and accept his responsibility for personal failures in life! If
that is the only lesson you have learnt from this chapter, you are a wise
person!! Go ahead and implement that principle in all your dealings in life!
SPACE FOR PERSONAL NOTES
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CHAPTER 8:
MORAL DEVELOPMENT IN CHILDREN
i Another recent research scientist that studied childhood in detail is
Lawrence Kohlberghas, an American psychologist, who stated that as we grew up
each one of us passed six developmental stages of morality! He carefully
monitored and documented how infants develop the sense of right and wrong. He
is a current scientist, and we can learn a lot from his research!
ii Stage one, he
labelled; PRE-MORAL , here moral development
is essentially at the pre-moral level.
Children at this stage behave properly simply to avoid punishment. They show an
unquestioning deference to power /authority, moreover, the physical
consequences of any action determine its goodness or badness for the child.
iii. Stage two, is INSTRUMENTAL-HEDONISTIC, morality here is like a
marketable commodity for the teenager. What is considered right is primarily
what is good for the child himself; occasionally, the satisfaction of other’s
needs is a factor, but the outlook of these persons is essentially an
instrumental-hedonistic one; e.g. ‘You scratch my back, I scratch yours.’
iv. Stage three, is PEER GROUP APPROVAL; morality is what is
approved by others. Peer group satisfaction gradually replaces parent’s
approval. At this level the child is able to take the role of others, he can
understand what will please them and tries to gain recognition as “the good
child”.
v. Stage four; The LAW–AND–ORDER stage. Here, children’s respect for
authority, whether parents, teachers, policemen, priests or pastor originates
in anticipation of honour and avoidance of dishonour. The orientation is to do
one’s duty, obey fixed rules and maintain the social order.
vi. Stage five;
AUTONOMY, principally behaviour is
based on what is right or wrong, decisions are made on what is proper or
improper on the basis of contracts, social or personal at the stage.
Adolescents are able to take into account the viewpoint of society in general
or play the roles of adults.
vii. Stage six;
is the UNIVERSAL ETHICAL PRINCIPLE orientation.
According to Kohlberg, only Jesus Christ, Mahatma Gandhi and Martin Luther King
jnr. have displayed in their lives; respect for the rights and dignity of their
fellow human beings and had been concerned that this mutual respect becomes a
universal law!
viii. From the information garnered from Lawrence
Kohlberghas, most of us humans are still struggling to graduate from the third
stage of moral development and this accounts for so many puerile and
purposeless leaders all over the globe!
ix. The second stage of moral development fits what we observe
in Third World countries, whereas, only a few of the so-called Fist and Second
world country are fixated at the third stage.
x. In INTEGRATIONAL
SPIRITAN MOVEMENT. (I.S.M.),
the target of each member is to reach the sixth stage
within ten years of joining the fellowship. Any one who lags behind will be
asked to resign his/her membership! It is a sure proof that such a one is
neither rational nor scientific and we detest such regressive behaviour!
xi. If as scientists or rationalists we are agreed that
only AN UNMOVED MOVER, or AN UNCUSED CAUSER was responsible for existence, the
universe and life; then we are brothers and sisters with equal rights,
privileges and responsibilities to one another.
xii. Some philosophers prefer the term ‘The Summum Bonuum’
but we are not restricting our discussion to languages that are cumbersome for
some to master. ‘The Supreme Good’ is neither an idiomatic translation nor an
adequate literal translation! More over both are subject to myopic
misrepresentations as what is ‘good’ to one person or culture may be ‘bad’ to
another, for example, polygamy whether polyandry or polygyny!
xiii. At this point it might be fundamental to summarise
what Gestalt Therapy has to offer! The mainstay or the notion here is that people are born wonderful, happy
creatures and would remain that was if allowed to grow up naturally.
xiv. It is the society one grows up in which begins to
influence us as children, that sometimes pushes us onto the wrong track. Our
problems occur when we absorb other people’s value-judgements, like our
parents, siblings, uncles, aunts, teachers, religious or political leaders.
xv. When these value-judgements are in sharp contrast to
our own real feelings, life-long conflicts arise. We often experience these conflicts
as self-disapproval for own genuine feelings and rather impose the opinions of
our culture or religion!
xvi. That alone spells the beginning of the end. So in
I.S.M. it is your duty to identify these impositions and ratify them based on
the divine natural laws the Almighty Creator put in the universe. This is the
basic theory and practice of Kenezianism
xvii. Finding them is easy. Look inwards and find the
natural laws written boldly in your heart. The little voice that speaks to you
anytime you are about to violate the natural laws are international and
non-partisan. What your parents and culture tried to do was only to stifle it
and imprint what they thought would be good for you!
xviii. You and you are the final arbiter in what you
think, decide and implement! No one can imprison your mind, thoughts, and
words. Yes, no one can bend your will –power if you are resolute. Are you going
to be the driver in the seat of your vehicle (your material body) or are you
going to be a passenger? This and only this is the golden price ISM demands of
you, and thereafter you can gain eternal freedom!
xix
In Kenezianism, only One True God exists, namely; GOD,THE ALMIGHTY CREATOR! He initiated
initiates and will forever initiate all thoughts, words and actions that are
global, eternal and metaphysical in all beings, animate as well as inanimate.
He is the Only One that deserves our unalloyed worship, praise, honour and
adoration!
xxi.
Every other being that ever existed,
exists or will ever exist, does so at His pleasure and comes under His Natural
and Eternal Laws that govern all macrocosms and microcosms He created! Hence
every other great religious leader, dead or alive, those acclaimed as divine
prophets, gurus, saviours or mystics are all classified as ‘lords’.
xxii. Therefore Shankara & Ramanuja,
K’ung Ch’iu (Confucius), Siddhartha Guatama (Buddha), Socrates, Plato,
Aristotle, Noah, Abraham, Moses, Joshua, David, Solomon, John the Baptist,
Jesus the Christ, Peter and/or Paul the apostles, Mohammed the Prophet, Mahatma
Gandhi, Martin Luther King, Sa’i Baba and/or any other prominent moralist must
be referred to only as ‘Lords’!
xxiii.
None
of them or anyone else that may come hereafter is near to or co-equal with Our
Almighty Father, who created and sustains everything in existence! This
knowledge and its eternal acceptance as the stepping stone to all educational
programmes are the beginning of wisdom for scientists of all generations, as
well as for all shades of religious affiliations!
xxiv.
Our
great grandfathers knew that much! So why did some fanatics deify their heroes
and idolised what was created and finite at any stage of its material/physical
existence in this universe? Ignorance is the one and only correct answer!
xxv.
None
of these famous religious leaders was there at the dawn of creations. Read the
books credited to Job, Solomon, Issaiah, Sirach, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John.
None of these authors suggested anything like that! No, not even the great
Patriarch Moses who founded Judaism was ever credited with dualising the Godhead,
not to mention Christians tripling it!
xxvi.
Even
the great apostle of the gentiles, Saul of Tarsus, later called Paul after his
miraculous conversion, emphatically states that the Almighty God is One and has
no equal or deputy! Read more of this in his first letter to his loyal converts
at Corinthians, Chapter 8 verses 1-6. Moses did a better job in the whole of
his book named EXODUS!
xxvii.
So
let us all stop this buffoonery of attributing equality in personhood to
anything else! It is not only idolatrous but sacrilegious and irrational! It
breeds fanaticism, segregation, partisanship and finally syncretism. It is the
harbinger of all-religious differences, schisms, feuds and wars!
xxviii. The world of science, medicine and
electronics have demonstrated that all human beings can believe, learn and
accept certain universal ways of doing things! This is because these areas of
knowledge are impartial, objective and devoid of sentimental attachment or any
form of socio-political patronage. We hold international conferences on most
departments of academics and arrive at world-wide principles and standards, so
why not in religion?
xxix.
The answer is simple; Religion is constructed
on the shifting sands of emotions, politics and hero-worships. These are
inimical to modern man. And the sooner we recognised it and addressed it, the
better for our generation! That is all that I.S.M. stands for. Join us today,
and provide the human race with a scientifically oriented spiritual fellowship
where all are brothers and sisters. Thank you and God bless everyone!
xxx.
*** Christian fanatics should read Matt.19: 16 -30
or Mk.10: 17 -31 or again Lk.18: 18 -30,and thereafter recognise that it was
Saul of Tarsus that deified Jesus at Philippians 2: 6 –11;realising that Is.45:
23 given as a foot reference does not confirm nor corroborate that deification!
It was a Pauline error, which has diverted the true worship of the only Creator
- Almighty God! So also did the Doctrine of Holy Trinity, which was copied,
from Hindu religion and from Greco-Roman mythology!
CHAPTER 9:
CONTROVERSY CAUSED
BY RELIGIONS
i My dear reader, can I now
call you a disciple? It will help me avoid the error of many religionists who
unwittingly masculinise all their injunctions with “he, his, himself, man” as
if only males are moralistic! In today’s world, women are more religiously
minded than men, yet many preachers and evangelists still deliver their sermons
as if the womenfolk were not around!
ii.
My
dear disciple, have you ever noticed the competition among various churches and
ministries around where you live? Would there be so much strife, slandering,
castigation and/or outright condemnation of each other if leaders of these
groups really understood the existential meaning of religion?
iii.
The
true meaning of the term “religion” is “ to bind oneself to doing something
willy-nilly”. Whether it is the belief in or the worship of gods or a God, as
the dictionaries would have us believe, the word originally came from the Latin
root “religere” which literally
translates to “to bind”, as if tied
with a rope. Its origin was derogatory. It was meant to castigate the early
Christians whom Nero ‘the mad emperor’ tied to stakes and made sport of, by
allowing lions to tear their bodies apart while the victims screamed in pains!
iv.
Read
historical writings about how the early Christians were martyred and you will
even realise that today we have very little faith. Where is the LOVE that these
early Christians demonstrated? Where is ‘the sharing all their belongings among
themselves’ that Chapter 4 verses 32 –37 of the Acts of the Apostles credited
them with? When shall the present crowd of hypnotised fanatics realize that
they are being taken for a ride by ‘a brood of vipers’ or demonic preachers,
‘whose only god is their belly’ as Jesus, the Christ referred to them in the
Christian bible? Hypocrisy has elevated to an art that yields millions for
these half-baked charlatans and school dropouts!
v.
We
have lost true love and religious piety that to greed, selfishness, avarice,
pride and the monetisation or commercialisation of religious worship, crusades
and other clandestine activities, all in the name of religion! While these
pastors smile to the banks, their followers wallow in penury, starvation and
ignorance! Did Christ or any other religious leader in history ever preach
competition, hatred, calumny, gossiping, slandering and a myriad of other
divisive behaviour that characterise today’s mode of pecuniary evangelisation
antics?
vi.
So,
my dear disciple, can you now see the plan of the Evil One that was predicted
in the Bible, the Anti-Christ and his devilish strategy? Don’t ever be caught
up in their materialistic religious deceptions! Free yourself today.
Rationalise what you hear, choose the one that satisfies international ethics,
as all altruistic moralists would enjoin us. This is the scientific age, not
the early or prehistoric ages when everything was based on introspective
vituperations or theological speculations of self-proclaimed visionaries.
Logical arguments and satisfactory conclusions should be your guidelines in
religious activities, not emotions!
vii.
If
you have not acquired any logical skills, then now is the best time to learn
the basics of scientific reasoning. It is the solution to so many differences
of opinions in life. I encourage you to be rational in your thinking,
discussions and actions from now on. You will be surprised by the amount of
freedom you will feel. Take time to evaluate all you have accepted from
childhood as truths without having had neither the chance nor the capability to
reason them out by then! Free yourself from self-imprisonment! Throw away those
dogmatic and doctrinal shackles that have held you hostage for so many years.
viii.
Witness
these practical samples of Kenezian wisdom: everyone uses telephone, whether
cellular or non- cellular, these days without quarrelling over who invented it;
no arguments arise from the use of computers or the internet; and so does
transportation either by land, sea or air! None of these has ever brought any
strife neither between any religious groups nor between nationalities of
various nomenclatures. Why does religion generate so much strife and
disagreements? The answer is very simple! It operates on the level of
irrational emotions; what appeals to one group of worshippers do not appeal to
others, because they are primarily based on personal opinions of their leaders.
Moreover the human mind is so egocentric, impressionistic and parochial! It
dichotomises what naturally does not need any divisions, segregations or
compartmentalisations.
ix.
Check this one out. Will two medical doctors
quarrel over the treatment of headaches or bruises or fractures? No, is the
natural answer. But often we do not realize why! That is exactly where
Kenezianism comes in as a science of morals that cuts across national,
political and religious boundaries. It reduces every concept about the
supernatural to logic, facts, data and practical knowledge that are independent
of its originator’s personal opinions. The concepts in Kenezianism are natural
phenomena that are replicable in any part of the world, irrespective of the
literacy level of its practitioner!
x.
An
example will demonstrate its universality. In Kenezianism, all human beings are
accepted as brothers and sisters for the mere scientific fact that we have
similar blood groupings, identical anatomy, comparable physiology and
heterosexual behavioural patterns! The proofs are there for everyone to see and
accept rationally, not emotionally nor parochially! We intermarry; blacks,
whites, and yellows interchangeably; and produce children not apes. And these
off springs of ours are neither ethnocentric at birth nor apartheid in social
relationships until their parents introduce them to stereotypic child-rearing
practices and segregationist education! This Gestalt Therapy deals with. The
avid reader can explore it!
xi.
The
principle of Kenezianism abhors such, and will not be dragged into such mundane
socio-political balderdash or any religious buffoonery! Its mission statement
spells that out in the KENEZIAN CREED and the LETTER TO ALL EDUCATIONISTS. Read
them over and over. Rationalise their universal utility for a more equitable
and egalitarian world government! If you cannot accept nor internalise the
concept therein, drop this book here and now and never border to read any other
publications of the Kenezians! It is very essential that we abrogate ethnic,
racial, status and religio-cultural divisions in our world of today that has
become a global village. The way we fight pandemics and terrorism should serve
us well in socio-political dimensions also! We must genuinely be our brothers’
keepers!
xii.
The
literacy level of many adherents of various religious groups is very low. Add
to this, the reluctance of human beings to adjust quickly to changes, and then
you will better appreciate why many wallow in ignorance. Many do not like to
explore unknown areas of knowledge in their short life spans. Most accept the
religion they were born into, swallow all their parental injunctions and cap
them all with the dogmas/doctrines manufactured by their myopic leaders. Thus
we have religious wars, crusades and jihads today, that culminate in terrorism
of varying magnitudes; the highest of which was the now notorious “September
11th of U.S.A.”
xiii.
When shall we ever learn? Did Confucius, Zoroaster, Buddha, Jesus or
Mohammed ever preach syncretism? The answer is an affirmative NO! Only Moses,
due to depersonalisation syndromes emanating from years of the enslavement of
his kith and kin in Egypt and his personal refugee status in Midian before he
was recalled to lead them out, inadvertently introduced segregationist concepts
encapsulated in the Mosaic laws of ‘clean and unclean’ religious injunctions
that culminated in ‘the Jew and the Gentile’ racist policies Chris failed to
address succinctly before he was sacrificed.
xiv.
As
far as we are concerned in Kenezianism, that was a costly price for every
religious leader who fails to resolve ethnic issues in his sermons. Did he
reconcile the descendants of Esau, Ishmael and Jacob? No! Did he identify with
the Samaritans, Greek or other ‘Gentile’ citizens of his epoch? No! Did he
integrate the Roman Rulers of his time with his ethnic group? No! There were
many other leaders, religious and/or political, in history that paid for the same
negligence. The concept that he died for everyone is not only obsolete but also
idiosyncratic and outrageously fanatical, for up till now, present Jews and
previous ones never acknowledged that idea. To-date, the Jewish race is still
expecting a Saviour! It was Saul of Tarsus who marketed the idea, as he was
making reparations for murdering Stephen and many early followers that he had
dispatched to impromptu graves!
xv.
The
truth will always surface no matter for how long it is buried. Let us learn to
apportion blame wherever and whenever they are due. Hero worship never pays
lasting dividends. Idolising a great leader detracts from total loyalty and the
true worship we owe to the Almighty Father, the Indisputable Creator of the
universe and all of us; human beings, plants, animals, animate microcosms and
other inanimate macrocosms. It is time to proclaim the true Unitarian Godhead!
Trinitarians are idolaters who copied from the ancient symbols of the religions
of the Far East and those of Egyptian mythology!
xvi.
Pragmatism,
Rationalism and Existentialism (P.R.E) remain the tripod on which Kenezianism
rests! Subject every novel idea you learn, to the acid test of satisfying those
‘Three Kings’ and if it passes, then internalise and practise it in your daily
life. If not, vomit it, for it is a counterfeit and therefore it is
anti-thetical to the present scientific age of man; ‘the Homo sapiens’! You are
hereby appointed a judge of all our write-ups that do not meet those criteria,
namely PRE. In addition, every injunction
of Kenezianism must be people oriented, meaning that it must be truly
humanitarian in all ramifications; thus giving us the formula; k= (ica / pre) hapo, where ‘k’ is same as Kenezianism, ‘ica’ equates to; ideas, communication
& actions, ‘pre’ represents the
three kings just mentioned above, whereas ‘hapo’
stands for; humanitarian and people oriented! Ask a mathematician to explain
the rest to you, while we proceed to other pressing fundamentals.
xvii.
Whereas other spiritual
organisations emphasise ‘beliefs-systems’and ‘dogmas/doctrines’ Kenezianism
emphatically encourages you to know, experiment and prove beyond every
reasonable doubt, every construct we propose to you for a lucid evaluation that
can formulate the building blocks for an all-embracive world government. We do not believe that God exists; rather we know
that HE/SHE/IT exists irrespective of our acceptance or otherwise of the great
truth! God is the ONE and ONLY GODHEAD that is and has no need for a
Trinitarian explanation. We prefer to refer to this godhead as ‘The Almighty
Creator’ at all times and use the pronoun ‘IT’ as there is no proof that IT is
either male or female!! And as the Prime Mover of all else that moves, it can
manifest as sound, light, energy and even as a physical entity!
xviii.
The
ambition of all Kenezians is to internationalise ‘obedience to all natural and
eternal laws as the bedrock of a world spiritual fellowship of realists and/or
scientists not a congregation of theologians, fanatics nor religionists. There
are many international religions already existing in the scientific community,
like the FIFA, OLYMPIC COMMITTEE, the WCC, the ICRC or even the latest and most
popular religion as at now; the internet (http/www.org) to mention but a few,
with dedicated adherents from all walks of life, esoteric/mystical sects and a
variety of mundane/fanatical fraternities or denominations that we can
ill-afford to increase the number. Rather, we crave to stand in the gaps to
bridge the sentimental divides and knock down the perennial walls of
differences in doctrinal conflicts.
xix.
We
know that it is possible to get all intelligent people to agree to and share an
international concept provided it appeals to reason and arrests the interest of
literate citizens of the global community who feel concerned. Our integrational
spiritual fellowship, hereafter referred to as ISF, is based on
scientific principles that obey all natural laws in creation. You, too, can
contribute your altruistic quota to the consolidation of this brand of
interdisciplinary, inter-racial and inter-devotional organisation. Any bright
formulation is welcome provided it meets the basic requirements stated above as
summarised by our scientific formula.
xx.
You may refer to us as the UNAID, UNICEF, UNO or WHO of all known,
registered and yet to be registered religions. We are, in a real sense, the
meeting/melting point of all belief-systems. Every rationalist is welcome! If
you appreciate what we stand for, communicate with us today. Don’t postpone or
procrastinate.
And
your life will be enriched beyond your wildest dreams.
YOUR
ETERNAL SELF-FULFILLMENT IS ONLY ONE CLICK AWAY ON ANY INTERNET EXPLORER
NEAREST TO YOU NOW.
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CHAPTER 10:
LECTURES FROM THREE
UNIVERSITIES
i We now come to the basics
of nature study. Have you ever observed soldier ants on the march? It will
definitely be difficult for those of us who did not grow up in a rural
community or in a farm! For such persons, their elementary biology textbooks
will suffice. All they need do is revise what they learnt in secondary school
about social insects or look up that
title in an encyclopaedia or browse the Internet.
ii.
In
either case, what they will learn is that these small insects are so well
organised that it is a wonder why we, the so-called ‘Homo sapiens sapientes’
are so disorganised. Why do we need the police force to beat us into line,
whereas these minute insects do not step out of line nor try to do another
insect’s duty?
iii.
They
have specialists for any and every problem they group will ever encounter while
they are on any march. Pity yourself, if you interrupt their movement. By the
time they swarm around you and sink their jaws into your exposed skin area, you
will feel so much pain that next time you will not only fear to cross their
path, but you will dread and avoid any other insects that resemble them! Why?
iv.
These
little creatures have soldier ants with larger mandibles specialised for
aggressive actions against any intruder and their duty it is to fight and
protect the group. And their job ends there. They do not interfere in other
duties like reproductive activities or in feeding the younger ones in the
group. We have copied that much, but do our own soldiers mind their duty only?
v.
There,
is an important lesson for us humans to learn! A little common sense is all
that we need to learn only one trade, specialise in it, be proud of it and not
interfere in other people’s professions! But this rarely happens in the social
organisation of mankind, yet we claim to be ‘the lord of the material
universe’.
vi.
Or
shall we take lectures from another university? This time, from honeybees? Read
all you can about this other social insect that even has a language
communicated by a dance ritual. It is wonderful how minute beings out-class us
in organising their little worlds. They eschew in- fighting. Rather they co-operate
so well that their hives are always peaceful until man, the selfish scavenger
intrudes to harvest where he never sowed, namely their honey that we steal in
order to please our tongues!
vii.
Again,
they are so specialised that only one queen and a king may be found in each
community at a time. Unlike what obtains in our human world, where we fight to
establish supremacy! How many kings, queens, presidents, chairmen/women and
traditional or religious rulers do we have? Are we ready to serve, take orders and
obey even our own constitutions? Yet we pride ourselves as ‘Homo sapiens’!
viii.
Visit
web sites and learn how the honeybee communicates to the members of the hive
that it has found nectar, either nearby or faraway. It is amazing, especially
when one realises that they never learn these things. They are born with the
peculiar knowledge of the waggle or straight dance. Scientists call this
‘species-specific’ behaviour, thereby indicating that they are born with the
information stored in their memory and they must willy-nilly manifest them at
the appropriate developmental stages of their lifecycles.
ix.
The
inquisitive minds will at once want to find out whether human infants have
anything that resembles this. The answer is an affirmative YES! So the next
natural question that follows is what happened to the human infant. You want an
answer? Are you really that inquisitive or you want to behave like your species
of proud apes?
x.
You
will have to wait till we have received tutorials from another university of
nature, the termite colony! You must do yourself this favor. Don’t believe me,
nor trust the information you surf from the Internet. Go out there, into the
fields and have a firsthand experience of these data that biologists have spent
years documenting so as to spoon-feed our infants at schools. That may also
explain to you how and why human beings, are the laziest and craziest
veterbrates in existence.
xi.
The
termites are the greatest engineers in the universe! That you doubt me fades
into insignificance when you compare their anthill, structure weight for weight
with their bodies. Our skyscrapers are nothing wonderful if we recognise that
these minute ants don’t use mechanical machines to assist them in the
construction work, nor do they use building plans scaled and drafted by
architects!
xii.
Again,
what happens inside the termite palace is another natural wonder! The social
organisation, though absurdly hierarchical, commands our respect! There is
specialisation, not only in body structures, but also in the roles and duties
each ant plays for the mutual benefit of the community.
xiii.
That,
precisely, is the point I am trying to emphasise. We, humans need to send our
politicians to these anthill universities scattered all over the globe, to
learn public administration! For as long as we allow mediocres to manage the
affairs of any nation all in the name of political patronage, for so long shall
the masses bear the brunt of their bungling of the administrative apparatus of
the state.
xiv.
It
does no one good to function as a Minister of Health with credentials in
engineering or even business administration! I am sorry for developing
countries that waste their little resources by so doing. My opinion is that they must learn to put
square pegs in square holes and round ones in round holes! They need these
tutorials from termites, honeybees and soldier ants!
xv.
My
dear reader, are you following my trend of meditation? What of in our
individual homes, kindreds and villages? Should fathers, mothers and children
not take notes of lessons from these insects? My emphatic answer is a capital
YES! What a mess is made of family life and peace by parents who throw their
weight all round the place, all in the name of stamping their authority and
exacting immediate obedience from everyone around!
xvi.
Let’s
quote an example to illustrate my point; “Apart from the reproductives, all castes
are sterile and wingless and have whitish bodies, Typically, the workers
constitute the most numerous caste and are the smallest of the adult forms.
Workers build and provision the nest, tend the eggs, and feed and groom all the
other inmates of the community.”
xvii.
“
All species have soldiers with greatly enlarged heads. The soldiers of certain
species are equipped with huge jaws for defence of the colony; in some species,
the soldiers have long snouts, from which they eject a sticky, poisonous
substance to envelop an enemy and render it helpless.”
xviii. Do you see what I mean? They owe their
efficiency to dedication to duty despite the fact that they do not enjoy the
basic rights of all other animals, namely the joy of sexual intercourse. May be
I should have said ‘mainly because they do not indulge in the time-consuming
and diversionary sexual copulation’ that is the genesis of distraction and
depravity in the human species. Do you get my gist?
xix.
The
rivalry and competition to attract and please the opposite sex is the bane of
all in-fighting animals on earth, be it in higher or lower creatures, the
unicellular or multicellular forms of all animate beings. In olden days, and in
some cultures to date man-made eunuchs exist and perform their duties more
religiously than our so-called priests and nuns!
xx.
The
radical position being canvassed for by this writer for a wiser society is
this: ‘It is time for selective social engineering, genetical selection and
specialisation of men and women!’ Reproductive activities must be
controlled to reduce defective babies as well as the over -production of a
generation of human beings with a very high load of defective genes! You may
scream ‘Tufia-kwa!’ or curse in any
other dialect or language ‘God forbid this!’ But only time will tell whether
the recommendation is completely anathema! For now, most religions of the Far
East and the Catholic Church do not think I am crazy!
TOTAL OBEDIENCE TO NATURAL
LAWS
The true example of the Son
of God, Jesus the Christ!
(Details of this was
discussed in Volume III of ANGELIC VERSES)
·
Of
all the prophets and leaders sent from above to make reparations for the
disobedience of Adam and Eve, one and only one fulfilled the total obedience to
God’s laws in creation, both the natural and the supernatural and so merited
being resurrected by the power of the Creator!
WHAT, WHEN, HOW & WHO BEGAN THIS GLOBAL PEACE SEARCH?;
THE
PRINCIPLES OF KENEZIANISM
The
theory and practice of Kenezianism started in 1970, at the end of the civil war
when its originator Major Kenechukwu Nzeogwu Mbaezue; BA/ 6532, of the Degema
Strike Force, 12th Commando Brigade, Biafra, returned from the war front! He
felt shattered by the final outcome of the fratricidal debacle of three years.
“Why did we lose the war of survival? Should Nigeria the aggressor defeat us
the victims of their cruel and premeditated pogroms? Of what use were the
prayers to a god that never answered us? Or did our leaders commit unpardonable
war crimes or indulge in sacrilegious absurdities? Is the Muslim religion more
authentic and reliable than Christianity? If yes, then let us join them and go
on pilgrimages to Mecca!” Finding answers to these existential questions drove
the young war veteran crazy. He could not comprehend how an unjust war ended in
favour of the aggressors. For him it meant that we wasted all our time and
youthfulness in the war fronts praying to the God of Christians! He truly
deserved veritable explanations! He withdrew from all religious engagement for
a period of ten consecutive years, from 1970 to 1980. That gave him enough time
to reflect on some existential questions about all he had learnt from the
Christian missionaries that moulded his early life in the junior and senior
seminaries. There arose the need for him to re-evaluate his belief system,
moderate his scrupulous orientation to social life and thereafter, formulate a
realistic code of conduct that could guarantee his survival in the conflicting
world of the Nigerian society he found himself trapped in! He lived as a war
captive for the next 30 years! Within this period, he practised the detached
life of a sad research scientist reminiscent of the great Austrian monk and
geneticist, MacGregor Mendel. He earned a total of four university degrees that
spanned a period of 15 years, with breaks here and there to assist his eight
younger brothers and sisters, siblings of the same humble family of a school
teacher/catechist! To achieve this, he again joined the armed forces of the
nation he lived as an exile, the fallout of which was that he neatly sandwiched
a military diploma, pjsc, from the Nigerian Air Force in between the four
degrees! A bachelor’s degree in Philosophy, sponsored by the Catholic
missionaries in1970, then another bachelor’s degree in Psychology,
self-sponsored and partly aided by a Federal Government Loans Bursary award in
1975. This loan was later paid in full after his NYSC, which he served at the
Department of Psychiatry, University College Hospital, Ibadan, and Lambo’s Aro-
Village System, Abeokuta from 1975- 1976! This was followed by a three-year
stint as an Air Force Medical Officer, NAF 759. Upon winning the Anambra State
Ph.D. Scholarship Award in 1977 he resigned in 1979 and later earned a Masters
in Clinical Psychology, from the School of Medicine, University of Benin, in
1982. He rounded his training with a Doctor of Science degree in Research
Psychometrics, earned by innovative researches in personality evaluation, organisational
psychology and family counselling in 1993! This doctorate degree qualified him
to join the prestigious African College of Research Scientists, Addis Ababa
Campus, of which he is now, a Fellow! A rare feat of academic achievement for
anyone to obtain through self-reliance, ingenuity and resourcefulness! For the
next phase of his research/academic life he combined family roles and clinical
duties, churning out psychological tests for guidance/career counselling,
personality evaluation and marriage/family counselling. In the interim he got
married and to date has two boys and a girl, who became the well-deserved
consolation for his long years of ambivalence! Today he is a retired Flight
Lieutenant in private practice as a HUMANISTIC-EXISTENTIAL PSYCHOTHERAPIST. He
still does extensive research in Family Counselling/Therapy, Behaviour Therapy
and Community Medicine. His published psychological tests and books exceed
fifteen, as at the last count. He is a respected authority in Psychometrics, a
Member of the National Association of Clinical Psychologists and the
Founder/Animator of three world-wide NGOs; i. KENEZ HEALTH KLINIK, an
Interdisciplinary Therapeutic Organisation for Family Health, ii. HAPPY FAMILY
NETWORK INTERNATIONAL, an Inter-ethnic NGO for grooming happy families, iii.
INTEGRATIONAL SPIRITAN MOVEMENT, a Spiritual Fellowship for Modern Scientists!
The greatest contribution he has made so far seems to be in the area of family
counselling and existential therapy where he has constructed, validated and
standardised more than thirteen psychological tests for school career guidance,
pre-marital counselling and crises intervention in families that need help! In
addition, he has written nine books covering such areas of knowledge as: social
ethics, theosophy, cosmology, social and community medicine. The manuscripts of
these inspirational works are, in the real sense of the phrase, begging for
funds to print them. Can anyone publish these books so that others may benefit
from the information stashed away in them? His religious involvement in early
life became an asset as this book in moral ethics has turned out to be the best
outcome of his contemplative lifestyle. Below are some of the verses he wrote
that kept him mentally alive and hopeful that his children would have a better
future! You may benefit from reading and practising some of them in your daily
living! There are existential truths rather than theological jargons!
If
only fifty serious minded natural scientists can organise the teeming populations
in every community and nation of this our confused and selfish world to do
these, WE SHALL ENTHRONE A GLOBAL PEACE FOR OUR GLOBAL VILLAGE,
Your
Chief Servant and the Animator International of I S M;
The
Revolutionary Professor of Modern Theosophy
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